In EnglishTete is your father's sister, the aunt who counsels her brother's children, above all the girls, on conduct and marriage.
Tete is the sister of your father, and a married woman also calls her husband's sister tete. Her brother's children are her vazukuru, and she often calls them mwana wehanzvadzi, 'child of my brother'. Custom placed her so close that a child was said to have three parents: mother, father and tete. Her main work is shaping the conduct of her brother's children, especially the girls, teaching them self-respect, the customs of marriage and how to prepare for married life.
Marriage is where she matters most. Tete has the authority to confirm a woman as a wife, helps settle quarrels between spouses and matters of childlessness, and at roora the money a bride picks from the plate for herself may be set by her aunt or her sister; one of the roora cattle, yechimanda, is named for the aunt. In the textbook compositions she gives a niece her last counsel before marriage, and the vatete remind a new bride that she now lives in her husband's family's home. She also has a place in nhaka, where a dead man's sisters join the vazukuru and his younger brothers in the inheritance ceremony, and in the old custom of chimutsamapfihwa a girl could be given to the husband of her late tete to take her place.